Planet Ayurveda Reviews: How I Coped up with Vaginismus Through Ayurveda?
Hi, I am Sanya, a 25-year-old woman, I became known to this word, Vaginismus when I was 21 and tried to use Tampon as an alternative to Pad. Kindly note, this is an explicit story related to sexual acts and menstrual cycle. So, read it only if you are not here to judge one but to know about the problem and the methods that can help in getting relief from it.
Before revealing my own experience, let us understand a brief about the problem. Vaginismus is a medical condition, in which the muscles around your vagina contract in such a manner that denies getting anything inserted into it and causes pain, it may be something during pelvic examination by the Gynaecologist, A Tampon or During Masturbation/Fingering and Sex. It may be due to any reason, medical history such as Urinary Tract Infection, Intestinal Yeast Infection, etc. or maybe naturally sometimes.
Till the college time, it was very Ok to take leaves due to the menstruation pain. Having a history of severe stomach infection, I use to have severe menstrual cramps that end for a minimum of 2 to 3 days. But, after entering into the adult age of life, job, and living away from home, it became difficult to manage the things during Menses. Now, you can’t just take a leave for 2 to 3 days continuously as it affects your work as well as hampers the working of the organization.
During the conversations with colleagues and friends, I came to know that using Tampons help a lot in avoiding the stains as well as reducing the menstrual pain. I wondered about it, also wanted to use them to know the actual results. As living with menstrual pain even for a day is really so irritating and hurting. It disturbs all the workings as well as the emotional and physical well-being. One day surfing through the internet, I also came across some words describing the benefits of Fingering or Masturbation in relieving Menstrual Cramps. I got curious and read about it. The write-up has explained the need for Masturbation at a defined age and its benefits for a healthy emotional, psychological as well as physical health of a person in a really interesting and well manner. I read it whole and also some more links attached to it. At that moment, my mind had a mix of all these thoughts that surely, is a part of life but all get it at different ages, according to their company, curiosity, and knowledge.
Earlier, even I got shameful reading such things and the thought of trying them highly scared me due to my upbringing in such an Indian society, where such topics always remain unrevealed. But as I am a law graduate and was very familiar with the sexual acts and its effects on life, I even talked about such topics in the classes as well as in the court during the internship. I kept my shame aside and prepared my mind, that these are not the things and topics to get ashamed of. These are all-natural and everyone should have the proper knowledge of these things to avoid health complexities as well as any other bad result.
Ok, so again I got back to Tampon, and read about it completely, like what is it in actual? How to use it? Why there arose a need to discover such thing, Tampon when there was already a good thing to use i.e., Pad? In a society like India, where Girls can’t talk about Pads and Periods openly even in front of the other females and also face difficulty in purchasing Pads from the shopkeeper, how can they use or buy Tampon? And many other questions in my mind.
But, while reading about all this, even my thoughts on this topic got more open and clearer, and I ended up with a mindset that it is just a natural thing, and every girl and even boys should know about it for healthy sex life and love relations. But, in my case, I got afraid to use tampons due to some questions like, what if it would enter inside and I would get unable to remove it? Inserting it may pain as I already can’t tolerate the pain of menstrual cramps. Also, what if I might have Vaginismus, that will disallow its insertion? If yes, then I can’t even talk about it to anyone and will end up with another problem. Using it was more difficult than a normal pad. Finally, I dropped the idea of trying it and continued using the Pads during Periods.
After that, there came a time when I got into a relationship. I was 23 at that time. A dream of having a loved one beside me was normal like all other girls, but when it comes to satisfying your relationship by fulfilling all your desires as well as the expectations of your partner, then many thoughts start to grab your mind. But you can’t do anything at that time because you get so comfortable with your partner, and involved in the relationship that you can’t deny your own or your partner’s feelings and expectations from the relationship. The relation was eminently wonderful until it reached the sexual sensations and feelings of having sex. It was not only from one side or any force from my lover, but the feelings appeared in both of us. We started to plan our first-time sex and always ended up planning the before and after sex but not during sex.
Finally, we decided to not plan anything and go with the flow. We met, everything was so good, we both were alone in the room, all the situations were so favorable and we both had the sexual desires and wanted to fulfill them with all the romance. We were in the moment, to take our relationship to the next step. It all started with normal gossips and love and reached the highest level of romance. Those who have lost their virginity with Romance can easily feel my situation at this time. Wait! I interrupted and ran to the bathroom. Again, the same thoughts were capturing my mind, what if it would pain? What if I have Vaginismus? What if I can’t satisfy him completely? And many more. He called me out anyhow and comforted me with all of his love and care. I got so comfortable that I shared all my thoughts with him. I felt extremely blessed that day when I heard his reply. He simply replied to me that it is natural and if any problem appears, he is with me in everything.
Let me tell you one thing that I always had a feeling that I will only be so close to only one person with whom I will spend my life. I am a girl of the 90s living in the twenty-first century by not letting the modernization affect me to a great level. When it comes to love life, I always wanted a relation like my elder generations, where it was pure and not just physical. My friends always laughed at me that it is not possible to live denying the fact that today’s era is all about satisfying physical desires through love. But I was just stuck to my thoughts. But finally, I had someone in my life and also my heart has the desire to take my relationship with him to the next step.
Now, what to do with the thoughts that were not letting my mind to be free in any manner. Finally, we reached the situation of intimation, oops. My fear became real. For my comfort, he first started it with his finger, but my vagina denied accepting it also. I got so uncomfortable and frustrated until that moment. I started crying with a fear that now I would lose him as I can’t satisfy the sexual desires of our relationship. Thank you, God!! That this time the reality was just opposite to that of my thoughts. He created a comfortable environment and relaxed me against my negative and irritating thoughts. At that time only, we searched on Google about the situation and concluded that it is not so rare problem and can be eliminated through medications.
Being allergic to the allopathic medications and fear of the complications, filled me again with the thoughts that I can never get rid of it and will always remain a virgin, also will have to face the society as a blot for not being a mother. I was so drained in my thoughts that it took him many days to help me getting out of this and providing the solution. He was aware of all my situations and allergies; hence, we came up with a solution to combat the problem with the herbal remedies. In the search of the best and most effective herbal treatment of the problem, we came across Planet Ayurveda. The best thing about them is the efficacy and purity of their herbal products as well as no fear of coming in front to get the treatment.
I am so happy now that I overcame my problem of Vaginismus with the consultation received from the Ayurveda experts at Planet Ayurveda and their herbal formulations that not only helped me in treating Vaginismus but also provided me beneficial effects on other mild problems such as relieving menstrual cramps, strengthening immunity and maintaining my overall health. We did not have to go anywhere for my treatment, I just provided my all information in a mail and shared with the team of Doctors at Planet Ayurveda. I received a very satisfying reply and that also within an hour of my email, with a prescription of herbal supplements and good wishes for recovery. The prescription was consisting of Female Health Support, Boswellia Curcumin Capsules, Yograj Guggul and Shatavari Capsules. These all herbal supplements were like magic to me, the medicines relaxed me against my pain and comforted me for happy and healthy sex life.
These herbal medicines from Planet Ayurveda are best at relieving pain, relaxing muscles by eliminating the involuntary spasm or contraction of muscles and assuring the proper functioning of the female reproductive part along with the other beneficial functions for the maintenance of overall health of the female body.
We already have searched about the brand and its products and decided to consult after getting satisfied in a much better way than other available options. I also had a fear at that time to order the medicines at my own home or the place where I lived. What if anyone gets to know about it? What will people think to see the parcel of medicines? This problem of mine was also resolved by my better half, he ordered the medicines and provided his address for delivery by taking all the risks only for me.
We received the medicines, I started using them and the effects were visible within 2 months of starting the treatment. Also, I disturbed the doctors at Planet Ayurveda, numerous times due to various thoughts and questions that were disturbing me emotionally and mentally. They have told me that many females with such problems have already been treated by their herbal medicines and I have to take medications for 5 to 6 months for proper treatment and will surely get successful results. I believed them to a limited extent but after 2 months when I, myself saw the positive effects my trust on Planet Ayurveda increased and finally after using the herbal medicines of Planet Ayurveda, continuously for 5 months, I ended up with the recovery from my problem and was so happy to get over all my negative thoughts also, living a happy and healthy love life.
Now, I am successfully living my married life, being healthy and well satisfied for 2 months. I am very thankful to God for making my dream of life-partner come true as I wanted. I can never forget to be thankful to Planet Ayurveda and the Ayurveda experts there, as I should have died if I didn’t find their herbal supplements on time by solving all of my queries whenever I had. Now, I am a firm believer in Ayurveda and also the herbal products getting manufactured in Planet Ayurveda. I am using their skincare and hair care products too and also, whenever to suggest a treatment to anyone, I suggest to go for Planet Ayurveda and getting the health problem healed with all the natural remedies.
I should say that Girls and Ladies out there, do not be shy when it comes to your private body parts or personal life, share it if you have any problem and get it resolved on time. I am lucky that I have a partner who supported and trusted me in all those chapters of my life, you may also have someone beside you, whether your mother, sister, friend or anyone, whom you can believe with all your heart. And if you have a doubt, then don’t worry. The team at Planet Ayurveda is helping everyone without even revealing anyone’s personal information to anyone, also to hear from you at any time regarding any health concern and providing natural solutions for the same.
Do not get upset!!
Nature has the solution to every problem of yours…
You just have to find that way.
Thank you, Planet Ayurveda, for helping me reach the solution!!
Thank you, Ayurveda!!
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